For gay men 40 and over
Stop performing. Start living as the man you actually are.
I'm Joey Monahan, also known as @gaycoachjoey. I coach gay men 40 and over who are burned out, frustrated, and generally over it as a gay man. They've done the work to understand what the hell is going wrong. But what does it even look like when it's fixed? And who will you even be? That's exactly what I help you answer.
15+ years coaching • 100+ gay men coached
"Now, I am learning who I really am and loving that man."
MARK, 58
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A few direct minutes on why the cycle keeps repeating, and what it actually takes to break it.
How it works
The Baseline Transformation Method
Three phases. No hand-holding, no shortcuts. Just what it takes to stop performing and start living.
PHASE ONE
Analyze
A clear vision of the man you're building toward, and a blunt, honest read on where you actually stand and what's really in your way.
PHASE TWO
Attack
Confront the beliefs that have been running you. Replace them with real strategies and tools, and rebuild trust, in yourself and in others.
PHASE THREE
Launch
Rebuild your habits to match who you actually are now. Name the next mountain, and put in place what makes the change stick.
About your coach
Hi, I'm Joey Monahan.
I've spent 15 years as a leadership coach across health care, tech, CPG, nonprofits, K-12, and higher ed. Online I'm Gay Coach Joey (@gaycoachjoey), founder of Gay Man Remixed and creator of the Baseline Transformation Method.
I'm an out and proud gay man in my mid-40s. I've done it all and had the burnout era to prove it. It's my mission and passion to use my coaching expertise, and my own experience, to help guys make this next chapter the one they've always wanted and hoped to have.
Built for gay men
Generic coaching won't touch what you're actually carrying.
Shame. Perfectionism. Coming out later in life. Chosen family. Dating and intimacy. Overperforming at work to prove you're enough. These aren't side issues. They're the real obstacles, and they're specific to us. The Baseline Transformation Method was built by a gay man, for gay men, to confront them head-on instead of dancing around them.
Men who've made the shift
AJ
Joey's program has drastically increased my self-confidence and the way I think through issues in my life. The way he guides you through how to change your mindset and outlook is transformative.
Client
Mark
Before I became a client of Joey's, I was in a really dark place. Now, I am learning who I really am and loving that man. Coming out later in life (age 58) I felt behind and Joey has helped me to see I'm right on time.
Client
Rob
After my divorce, my sadness kicked into high gear and I came across Joey's page and everything he talked about resonated with me. I gave him a shot, and he helped me stand up for myself and get rid of the negative in my life. Can't wait to see what's next.
Client
Stop waiting for the right time. There isn't one.
Book the call, or watch my free masterclass first. Either way, do it today, not someday.
